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With Christmas upon us, TFT gives a glimpse of how OFWs in the UAE spend the holidays thousands of miles away from their families.

Overseas Filipinos in the UAE will endure yet another Christmas in their flats here in Dubai and all the other emirates due to the multifaceted impact of the pandemic, plus the effects of Typhoon Odette.

Anna* (name withheld) had packed her bags filled with presents, gifts, and other surprises for her flight last December 19 at the Dubai International Airport, for her first trip back home after five years.

All of her plans were thwarted by a flight cancellation due to the devastating typhoon Odette.

“Ang sakit sa kalooban kasi nakaplano na lahat, pero mas masakit sa pakiramdam ko bilang ina na kailangan ko ulit paliwanagan yung mga anak ko na baka hindi muna ulit makauwi si mama. Miss na miss ko na ang mga anak ko at hindi ko na napigilang umiyak nung makita ko sila sa video call nung sabihin ko ang nangyari,” said Anna.

Anna was one of hundreds of overseas Filipinos from the UAE whose Christmas plans got affected not only because of the devastating typhoon, but moreso because of the expensive flights for those who wish to come home.

As of press time, the Philippines’ Ninoy Aquino International Airport (NAIA) has yet to increase its travel cap of 4,000 passengers per day. Local airline groups in the Philippines attempted to urge the Inter Agency Task Force to increase the travel cap to 10,000 as early as November. However, the threat of the new Omicron variant of COVID-19 that spread faster than Delta is seen as one of the plausible reasons why the limit might be here to stay for longer.

IMPRACTICAL SPENDING

The current passenger cap along with the holiday season and the consistent demand among OFWs who wish to come home, have surged ticket prices to an alltime high, ranging from AED 3000 to AED 8000 for a one way ticket according to ticket aggregator sites Skyscanner and Kayak.

Jonnel Garcia, a teacher based in Dubai for five years, stated that it’s better to stay in the UAE for another Christmas instead of having to pay exorbitant prices. He also highlighted that the quarantine period back home also takes away what little precious time OFWs have for their annual breaks.

Jonnel Garcia Xmas 2021
“Limang pasko ko na pong hindi kapiling ang aking pamilya sa pagdiriwang ng Kapaskuhan. Sa tingin ko, hindi kasi praktikal na umuwi dahil maikli lang ang winterbreak namin at sasamahan pa ito ng banta ng kaligtasan laban sa Covid. Kailangan pang mag-quarantine na mababawas pa sa araw na makakasama ko na sana ang pamilya. Dagdag pa rito ang presyo ng ticket. Doble o triple sa halaga ng ticket na regular. Malungkot man, patuloy pa rin akong magdarasal na sana ay makasama sila kahit hindi Pasko,” said Jonnel Garcia

Christian Mejia Cruz, an OFW for over 17 years in Dubai, stated that he already missed the same number of Christmases back home, but shared the same sentiment since for him, spending too much money on plane tickets isn’t ideal.

Christian Mejia Cruz Xmas 2021
“Hindi makatarungan ang presyo ng ticket, lalo na kung ikukumpara sa mga flights sa ibang bansa. Bukod tanging Pilipinas lang ang ganitong kamahal ang presyo. Bukod diyan, mauubos pa ang araw ng leave sa quarantine. Sana maging maayos na ang protocol sa Pilipinas para mas marami nang mga OFW tulad ko ang makauwi,” said Christian Mejia Cruz.

REUNITING FAMILIES

Instead of heading home, some OFWs opted to bring their families here to the UAE instead.

Catherine Cervantes from Abu Dhabi, welcomed her 11-year-old daughter Francheska with heartfelt hugs on the morning of December 21 at the Dubai International Airport.

“Sobrang lumulukso ang puso ko sa tuwa dahil hindi ko akalain na sa pitong taon ko nag tatrabaho dito ay makakapiling na namin sa wakas ang anak ko. Yung mga dumaang taon na puno ng pagod at hirap bilang OFW parang nawala nang mayakap ko na ang anak ko – nangyari ang lahat in God’s perfect time,” said Cervantes.

Now that her kid is nearly in her teens, Catherine hopes to bond with her child a lot more and will continue to make ends meet just to ensure that her family stays together in the UAE.

Cathy Lanuza and family Xmas 2021
“Nalaki na ang anak ko na malayo kami sa kanya. Ngayong kapiling ko na siya muli, parang ayaw ko nang mawalay sa anak ko. Hangga’t kakayanin kong mamamalagi ang anak ko dito, kahit mahirap ang trabaho, gagawin ko ang lahat para sa pamilya,” said Catherine Lanuza (right). Together with her in this photo is her husband, Jonathan and her daughter, Francheska.  

George* (name withheld), an engineer based in Sharjah, said that he spent nearly AED 12,000 for roundtrip tickets as well as necessary paperwork to bring his wife and child here in the UAE.

“Masakit sa bulsa, pero para saan pa ba ang pinaghihirapan ko dito sa UAE kung hindi ko lang din naman pagkakagastusan ang simpleng ligaya kong makasama muli ang asawa at anak ko? Kakayanin natin muling kumita ng pera habang may trabaho tayo, pero ang oras at panahon sa pamilya dapat lamang na prayoridad natin iyan bilang OFWs,” said George.

Veron Vergara, a chef and entrepreneur in Abu Dhabi, said that despite being a single mom, she had managed to bring all of her kids over 15 years of her stay here in the UAE. And while she often spent her vacation back home she chose to stay in the country for the mean time to avoid the risk that the pandemic might bring upon herself and her family.

Veron Vergara with kids Xmas 2021
“Sa pagluluto ko na binuhay ang mga anak at pamilya ko. Dati madalas akong nagbabakasyon pero dahil nga sa pandemic hindi na muna ako umuwi. Mas okay dito dahil alaga tayo ng gobyerno ng UAE at malaya tayong nakakapagtrabaho para makatulong sa pamilya ko. Sa mga kapatid ko sa Pilipinas, Maligayang Pasko at tutulong ako hanggang kaya ko,” said Veron Vergara (back row, right). Together with her in this Christmas photo are her children and grandchildren.

Many other OFWs who have neither the opportunity to head home nor the funds to bring their family to the country opted to set their alarm clocks at 8:00 pm this December 24 to synchronize Christmas celebrations with loved ones in the Philippines in time for the Noche Buena.

“Video call muna ngayong taon sa Pilipinas. Buti na lang at naipadala ko na yung cargo noong October. Masaya na kong makitang binubuksan nila ang balikbayan box na pinagipunan ko sa buong taon,” said Abu Dhabi-based OFW Janice Gomez.


OFWs SPEAK: What’s your message for your loved ones back in PH?

Naudlot po ang bakasyon Ko ngayong kapaskuhan Dahil gawa po ng pandemic na kinakaharap natin, at nung nangailangan ang government ng mga OFW nurses sinubukan kong mag apply para maalagaan ang my mga pasyente ng my COVID at Dahil ako po ay isang Over All Team Leader Vaccination trial at COVId 19 Response Nurse ay  Hindi po kmi pwedeng magbakasyon muna hanggat may Covid.  Ang message ko sa aking mahal sa buhay lagi po tayong magmahalan, magbigayan, matulungan at higit Sa lahat matuto tayong mag ipon bawat isa, lagi po tayong magdasal na Sana tayo ay malusog araw araw Malayo Sa sakit alam natin na ang panginoon Diyos ay Hindi natutulog lagi niya tayo Ginagabayan at binabantayan. Sa aking pinakamamahal na nanay wag pong malungkot ngayong pasko next year Sa awa ng dyos at balik normal na ang buong Mundo magkakasama tau sa Susunod na pasko, Stay Safe & Healthy. I love you all.   - Michael Siapno, Over-All Team Leader COVID 19 Vaccination Trial & COVID 19 Response Nurse , 12 years in UAE
Naudlot po ang bakasyon Ko ngayong kapaskuhan Dahil gawa po ng pandemic na kinakaharap natin, at nung nangailangan ang government ng mga OFW nurses sinubukan kong mag apply para maalagaan ang my mga pasyente ng my COVID at Dahil ako po ay isang Over All Team Leader Vaccination trial at COVId 19 Response Nurse ay Hindi po kmi pwedeng magbakasyon muna hanggat may Covid.
Ang message ko sa aking mahal sa buhay lagi po tayong magmahalan, magbigayan, matulungan at higit Sa lahat matuto tayong mag ipon bawat isa, lagi po tayong magdasal na Sana tayo ay malusog araw araw Malayo Sa sakit alam natin na ang panginoon Diyos ay Hindi natutulog lagi niya tayo Ginagabayan at binabantayan. Sa aking pinakamamahal na nanay wag pong malungkot ngayong pasko next year Sa awa ng dyos at balik normal na ang buong Mundo magkakasama tau sa Susunod na pasko, Stay Safe & Healthy. I love you all.
– Michael Siapno, Over-All Team Leader COVID 19 Vaccination Trial & COVID 19 Response Nurse , 12 years in UAE
It has been roughly 6 years na hindi ko kapiling pamilya ko sa pinas during Christmas. To my Family, I want you to know how much you mean to me. You are the backbone that gets me through all of life's toughest times. I wouldn't have made it through half of the curveballs thrown my way if you weren't there for me.  This Christmas, I want to remind you that I love you and I am beyond grateful when you guys (mom, dad and our youngest sibling) had recovered fully after getting infected by Covid. To me, you guys are my ultimate gift.  Merry Christmas Mom, Dad and to my siblings. I cant wait to create memories together with you all. Sana completo na tayo sa susunod na Pasko!  - Ma. Katrina Opao Felisilda, nurse, 10 years in UAE
It has been roughly 6 years na hindi ko kapiling pamilya ko sa pinas during Christmas. To my Family, I want you to know how much you mean to me. You are the backbone that gets me through all of life’s toughest times. I wouldn’t have made it through half of the curveballs thrown my way if you weren’t there for me.
This Christmas, I want to remind you that I love you and I am beyond grateful when you guys (mom, dad and our youngest sibling) had recovered fully after getting infected by Covid. To me, you guys are my ultimate gift. Merry Christmas Mom, Dad and to my siblings. I cant wait to create memories together with you all. Sana completo na tayo sa susunod na Pasko!
– Ma. Katrina Opao Felisilda, nurse, 10 years in UAE
 Actually, It was my plan to go home for good in the last quarter of 2020 after completion of my 13 yrs but plan has tremendously changed because of the pandemic. It's a bittersweet effect of this uncertainty, I grabbed  the opportunity opened for OFW frontliners and continue to serve humanity as a covid 19 response nurse.  To my family back home, once again, we will  celebrate Christmas virtually.  Regardless of what is going on around the world, be happy and feel the spirit of this season. Don't worry, I'm in the safest country in this time of pandemic. Let's continue to hope and pray that 2022 will be better and safer for our family and for humanity. Merry Christmas!  - Maricar Cabanayan Andres, nurse, 14 years in UAE

Actually, It was my plan to go home for good in the last quarter of 2020 after completion of my 13 yrs but plan has tremendously changed because of the pandemic. It’s a bittersweet effect of this uncertainty, I grabbed the opportunity opened for OFW frontliners and continue to serve humanity as a covid 19 response nurse.
To my family back home, once again, we will celebrate Christmas virtually. Regardless of what is going on around the world, be happy and feel the spirit of this season. Don’t worry, I’m in the safest country in this time of pandemic. Let’s continue to hope and pray that 2022 will be better and safer for our family and for humanity. Merry Christmas!
– Maricar Cabanayan Andres, nurse, 14 years in UAE
Mahirap ang sitwasyon ng mga nurses ngaun sa pilipinas, wlang kasiguraduhan ang pagbbalik namen sa uae kung magbbkasyon kami sa pinas na wala kami existing employer. Ng dahil sa pandemic maraming nawalan ng trabaho at humina ang business ng pamilya namen kya naman kailngan ko muna manatili dto upang tulungan muna ang aking pamilya habang pandemic. Merry christmas and a happy new year to my family back in the philippines. Mahal na mahal ko kayo at miss na miss ko na kayong lhat, sana dumating ang panahon na hindi ko na kailnganing mangibang bansa para magsama sama na lang tayong pamilya.  - Rachelle Ann B. Forte, Nurse, 5 years in UAE
Mahirap ang sitwasyon ng mga nurses ngaun sa pilipinas, wlang kasiguraduhan ang pagbbalik namen sa uae kung magbbkasyon kami sa pinas na wala kami existing employer. Ng dahil sa pandemic maraming nawalan ng trabaho at humina ang business ng pamilya namen kya naman kailngan ko muna manatili dto upang tulungan muna ang aking pamilya habang pandemic. Merry christmas and a happy new year to my family back in the philippines. Mahal na mahal ko kayo at miss na miss ko na kayong lhat, sana dumating ang panahon na hindi ko na kailnganing mangibang bansa para magsama sama na lang tayong pamilya.
– Rachelle Ann B. Forte, Nurse, 5 years in UAE

Neil Bie

Neil Bie was the Assistant Editor for The Filipino Times, responsible for gathering news that will resonate among OFW readers in the UAE, Philippines, and around 200 countries, where the platform reaches both Filipinos and worldwide audiences. ||| Get in touch with Neil at: Facebook: Neil Bie ||| or by sending a message to the Facebook page of The Filipino Times at: https://www.facebook.com/FilipinoTimes/

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