Filipino moms are legendary for their fierce love, resourcefulness, and, of course, their colorful way of expressing their timeless wisdom. Here’s a compilation of classic phrases that every Pinoy kid knows all too well:
1. “Saan ka na naman pupunta?” (Where are you going again?) – This isn’t just a question, it’s a gentle reminder that you better have a good reason for leaving the house, especially after just being home.
It’s also part of the Filipino moms’ caring nature to know where their children are at all times. This classical phrase is a way for moms to express their concerns and to ensure that their children are safe.
2. “Anong akala mo sa akin ATM?” (Do you think I’m an ATM?) – This comes out when those “pabili” (buy me) requests get a little too frequent.
This phrase is used by Filipino moms to teach their children the value of hard work and financial responsibility. It’s a reminder that they should not take their parents’ money for granted and that they should work hard to earn their own.
3. “Bahala ka sa buhay mo!” (It’s your life!) – This seemingly dismissive phrase actually translates to “think carefully about your choices” because Filipino moms trust you, but they also want you to be accountable.
This classical Pinoy phrase is used by moms to give their children a sense of freedom and autonomy. However, it also carries a subtle warning that they should not forget the lessons and values that their mom has taught them.
4. “Manang-mana ka sa tatay mo!” (You’re just like your father!) – This isn’t always a bad thing! It can be a playful jab or a way of explaining why you inherited a certain trait, good or bad.
It’s often used by moms to tease their children and remind them of their father’s influence. It’s a way for them to bond with their kids and acknowledge the positive qualities that they have inherited from their dad.
5. “Huwag magsayang ng pagkain, maraming nagugutom na iba.” (Don’t waste food, there are many hungry people out there.) – A constant reminder about respecting the effort put into putting food on the table.
It is often used by moms to teach their children the value of gratitude and generosity. It’s a reminder that they should not take their food for granted and that they should always be mindful of those who are less fortunate.
6. “Mata kasi ang gamitin sa paghahanap, huwag bibig.” (Use your eyes to find things, not your mouth.) – Filipino moms are all about resourcefulness and problem-solving.
This teaches you to be proactive and look for solutions yourself. This phrase it their way to encourage their children to be independent and a reminder that they should not always rely on others to solve their problems and that they should use their own initiative.
7. “Nung araw namin…” (Back in my day…) – This usually precedes a story about how things were tougher when your mom was young, a subtle reminder to appreciate what you have.
They use this not just to reminisce about the past and share stories of their own childhood experiences but also a way for them to connect with their children and pass on valuable lessons learned from their own lives.
8. “Papunta ka pa lang, pabalik na ako.” (You’re just leaving, and I’m already back.) – This isn’t meant to guilt trip you, but to show how fast and efficient Filipino moms can be.
It is often used by moms to reassure their children that they will always be there to support them. It’s a reminder that they are always available to provide guidance and comfort, no matter what challenges their kids may face.
9. “Sige, subukan mo!” (Go, dare do it.) – No! Don’t do it! This phrase is often used by Filipino moms to caution their kids when attempting to do something that isn’t right.
You’ll commonly hear it when you are at the end of the line of your mom’s patience. No matter what it is that you’re planning to do, when you hear this, stop. It’s a tough love way of moms to say that you’ll get bruised or things won’t end well if you insist of doing things your way.
10. “Huwag kang uuwi dito!” (Don’t come home!) – Don’t be fooled! This is a playful way of expressing how much your mom will miss you when you leave, even if you’re just going out for a bit.
This phrase is often used by moms to remind their children of the importance of responsibility and accountability, including knowing when is the right time to come home.
These are just a few examples, and every Filipino mom will have her own unique spin on these phrases. But one thing’s for sure, these sayings come from a place of deep love, a desire to see their children grow up strong and responsible. They may sound funny or even a little dramatic at times, but they’re a reminder of the special bond between every Filipino mom and her child.
